But first, thank you all so much for the views. Wow. I had like 79 views for my first post and i hardly did any publicity.
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I intend to start major publicity by mentioning interesting people on Twitter and asking for a RT. please help a sister out.
Ese pupo
Shout out to Naijawife for the RT and being my first commenter. Totally appreciate hon...Post dedicated to you, inspired by the TOO MUCH BOOK Post here http://www.naijahusband.com/2013/08/02/too-much-book-sex/
So let's talk about SEX within the confines of marriage of course. Anytime else is a SIN
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Ok, so as a Single, I abstained totally and so did my hubby so both of us were Virgins. With my Christian girlfriends and I, we usually discussed the issue of 'First time' and all and we had been hearing all sorts of 'not-too-sexy' horror stories as one of us ditched singlehood or just from 'gist'. Confirmed gist sha.
My husband actually said a friend of his 'advised' him to encourage me BREAK MY HYMEN WITH MY FINGER before that day/night so that wahala no go dey... lol
I was not comfortable with all of that so...
A couple of us got together, with the book of 'Songs of Solomon' in the Bible and formed a SEX CONFESSION which we say as often as possible. I mean, if i have a confession for most aspects of my life which i have seen work, why not have a SEX one?
The Book of SOS is an incredibly romantic one. Makes us understand why Solomon had 1000 WOMEN lol. Dude knew how to do romance right.
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The SEX confessions came from there...
Needless to say that my first time was not bad like the stories I had heard. It was good and it gets better daily because I didn't have any fear anymore and I had gotten the necessary knowledge too from some older Christian friends and wise counsel during our pre-marriage Counselling.
The Confessions would be found after the jump...
Feel free to use them whether as a Single or Married person and both of you can even confess it together...
MY DAILY SEX CONFESSIONS
I find my hubby incredibly attractive. I make the extra effort to be attractive to him. He finds me beautiful beyond words. Beautiful in every way. My lips are inviting to my hubby,sweet as nectar. My breasts are very satisfying to him. My kisses are as exciting as fresh sweet wine to him.
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Our love is sweeter than the sweetest wine. Beautiful and satisfying beyond words.
My husband knows how to treat me just right. Delicate yet passionate. He understands my body and works it right.
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I have captured the heart of my hubby. Me and me alone. Like roses, I am always attractive to him. He can always find rest from all the cares and battles of life within my bosom. Our lovemaking delights both of us endlessly. We drink deeply and are satisfied with each other's love. The fruits of our garden are the finest.
My heart always responds joyfully to the call of my Lover. His heart thrills within him at my appearance. My lover and our love is so special. Nothing even comes close. Way better than ten thousand others. Every part of my husbands body appeals to me. Every part of my body appeals to him. Love making with my husband is desirable to me in every way. His mouth is sweetness itself.
My husband is physically fit. Nothing missing. Nothing broken. He knows how and when to say the right words and do the right things that turn me on.
I am my lover's and my lover is mine. Even among ten thousand others, our choice would always be each other.
I stay beautiful to and sexy for my husband at all times.
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He stays handsome to me too.
My body responds passionately to the touch of my husband. Morning, noon or night. I always reserve my best for him. Absolutely NOTHING can quench our LOVE...
The little foxes that spoil the vine are absent in our love garden. Our LOVE garden is always in full bloom. Green, colorful and flourishing. We are constantly enriched with good and godly resources that help our love garden bloom even more.
I am constantly furnished with romantic ideas that would spice up our marriage,love life and love making.
Daily, we are grateful for the choice of each other and our wedding day remains one of the best days of our lives because of how beautiful our marriage is.
We enjoy the godly marriage of our dreams, in every way possible.
**********THE END****************
Please note that we keep updating it so feel free to update and amend to suit you. My original confession actually has my hubby's name and mine in some lines. Makes it more personal.
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I totally know that it is the fact that we are too silent about this SEX matter that we don't enjoy it as much as we should.
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If you need knowledge, please get from the RIGHT SOURCES. Knowledge is NOT just power, KNOWLEDGE IS SEXY lol.
More than anything, feel VERY FREE to communicate with your hubby as per the SEX. Trust me hon, it is NO SIN.
SEX IS TO BE ENJOYED. Anything else is NOT of God. I insist.
Don't die in silence please.
Ok, this about sums this up.
My next topic, I would be sharing one of the BIGGEST mistakes I made in my relationship which is discussing marital/relationship challenges with the wrong kind of 'third party'. I say 'wrong' because sometimes you may need a third party but you have to be wise in sharing with the right person. No spoilers here, wait for it.
If there is anything you would want me to discus, feel free to mail me confidentially at marriagebydbook@gmail.com or just post a comment. You can also tweet at and follow @marriagebydbook I will follow back.
However, if I get a topic in my mail that I have to absolutely blog about, I would interrupt and do just that.
Please help me spread word. Totally appreciated. Sharing is SEXY too.
Until then, please keep LIVING BY THE BOOK
Hugs
Mrs. D
Nice post, these confessions are lovely. Will save them for when I get married. Meanwhile, I inadvertently posted the comment for this post on your earlier post. No vex, LOL.
ReplyDeleteKeep Living by the Book.
Oh seen. It is fine.
ReplyDeleteYou can feel free to start confessing them now as a Single. that is when I started too. Speaking the right words into the future so that they go there and create what exactly you want to see. Bless you dear.
Mrs. D
Oh my
ReplyDeleteI love I love LOVE this.
Stolen.
Welcome to blogsville Mrs D.
I envy you cos you can say anything seeing as you are anon.
Btw why Blogspot? You can port to WordPress now that it ain't late and thank me later.
Looking forward to more posts. And enjoy blogsville. I mentioned you on my latest blog post www.eziaha.com
Cheers ma and regards to Mr D.
Joining you guys soon *wink*
Muah
E'
Www.eziaha.com
Chai!..where do I start from?Thank God for @NaijaWife+E' whose links got me here.
ReplyDeleteToo beautiful for words@blog focus...i'm excited at the treasures to come...These confessions are too profound...whoa!
Suffice it to say,its reassuring that Christians are taking conscientious steps to do the 'unusual' parts of our lives,God's way....Me likey!
Congratulations on your marriage ma'am!...Its my prayer that you enjoy unlimited springs of resources to enjoy a love-union such as is patterned by Christ&the Church....much more that God blows the bounds of your knowledge of His love....
B.t.w,its a no-brainer that the families of the earth will be blessed through you...
Welcome aboard once again ma'am! *goes about to put finishing touches to welcome party*....lol..
P.s; Ehen, pardon me o,but I second E', please port to wordpress before this blog popularity makes a transfer tough...Wordpress is way reader/follower friendly, even easier for you the blogger,(sharing posts via social media,monitoring comments,likes,stats,reblog provisions etc)I should know...a couple months experience under the belt...and no,wordpress didn't pay me for the ad.
*runs away before blogger catches me*..hehehe.
Please, port to wordpress. That's a community and prrogress is noticeable.
DeleteI am kinda the only Guy around here but life, sorry links, brought me here.
Enjoy!
Eziaha darl
ReplyDeleteThanks a lot. You do have a fabulous blog you know now. Let me skip over and see what you said. Thanks for the twiter RT and follow. I am grateful. God bless.
Elisabeth darl if we don't take care of our own, who will?
Lol . Thanks dear for the prayers. Amen amen.
I'll check out WordPress ooo. And port if I like. Thanks for the headsup.
Hugs
Mrs. D
Awwww! I LOVE this! You are so right though, if we have confession for different areas of our lives, why leave sex out? i like this blog already :)
ReplyDeleteI agree! port to wordpress sharp sharp! And man am I blushing at the shout out. Us new bloggers have to support each other in this blogsville o. Plus I need another anonymous wife in my life =)
ReplyDeleteI'm going to try this confession thing myself.
Oh this is beautiful! I'm going to start declaring it every day! And I agree with Eziaha, please port to Wordpress asap! Bless you dear :-)
ReplyDeleteLoveeee! I used to confess a lot and for some reason, life got in the way and I don't do them anymore... You are so right, they work.... Truly truly work. I will go back to confessing again by God's grace.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love your honesty and 'frankness' talking about sex! I have also heard the 'horror' stories and sometimes I get a bit frightened that on the D-day it will not be as pleasurable as I want it to be! I'm like maybe we should just stick to heavy petting and not 'spoil' it with the 'painfulness' of sex (yup.. see what third party information can do!).. So it's great being able to read about it from a Christian sister! God bless you!
Definitely following and including in my blog roll of fame :-)
Welcome to Blogville Mrs D!
PS, don't mind E, Blogger is good jare :-D xxxx
Gee thanks darling. I like you already Hehehe
ReplyDeleteNaija wife, we should totally start an association of anon wives bloggers. I call 'president and treasurer' lol.
Try it oooo. It werks.
Joy darl, enjoy jare. Ah WordP people are winning ooo. You sure you guys weren't paid?
So much love for WordPress. Let us see how it goes tho...
One plus, loooooool.
Don't worry, once the pressure is off, (and there's err ky jelly) you won't even know when it happens *wink*
We really need to be careful about such info. Yes they happen but we can learn from and then avoid them.
Wedding night is for sleeping tho. I tell u lol.
But when you find the guy who is cool with only heavy petting, please let me know.
Hehehehe
Thanks everyone
Mrs. D
Wedding night is DEFINITELY for sleeping roooofl!
DeleteEhm
ReplyDeleteGood info
Bt...
Mind confusing too
Lol
Can you believe that I couldn't even confess it out loud. I had to read it in my heart cos it was so raw(lolz)
#crying... What have I allowed society to do to me???
Practice hun.. it makes perfect. I can't even say that I am perfect yet but i do know that I do NOT cringe as much as I used to at the start.
ReplyDeleteHugs for the tears.
Mrs. D
I love love love..and am stealing this!!! And to Mr “hymen blah blah” all I can say is “What???!!!”
ReplyDeleteNice article I must say. I enjoyed every line of it. I hope to read some more from you. I agree with the other guys. Come over to wordpress; its like a Holy Spirit galaxy over there. Believe it or not, if we combine forces, we can tip the world off its erroneous orbit for good. JayMary.
ReplyDeleteA guy on my blog.
ReplyDeleteLol. Now I blush. Lol
Thanks dear. I appreciate Jude.
THESE wordpress fans plenty oooo. Lol. I keep forgetting to check it out. But frankly I think I am loving blogger jor.
Lol.
In the midst of her, I am happy to share dear.
As for the request even Mr D was irritated. Turned it down flat. That is an insult to him sef.
Thank God it worked well.
Thank you for visiting and commenting every one. Means plenty to me
Hugs
Mrs. D
Lol@Holy spirit galaxy...J.Mary sha...smh..you see Mrs D?..you don't wanna know what wordpressers are capable of when we team forces...if the grass is greener on the other side,its probably getting better care..lol
ReplyDelete1plustheone is the only blogger card carrying member here afterall...
Yaaaay us!...
We'lld just fire prayers from all cylinders that you are favourably inclined to wordpress...*grins*
Cheers ma'am!